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The ping speed is measured in milliseconds and this represents the reaction time it takes for the computer to respond to a request either on your lap top, phone or PC.

Between 50 and 100 MS is normal

My Ping speed is 33MS

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However, speed does depend on a number of factors.The time of day is one. I was told once that when America wakes up, it slows down the internet here in the uk as more people are then using the net!

Also the area where you live whether city or rural like me where we dont get the high speeds the bigger cities get. The age of your device too. The older it gets, the longer it takes to fire up and search for things

Thanks for that information Florence. I always think any problems are down to me rather than the device or internet ;-)

I keep looking at changing provider but hear of people having so many issues I don't want to jump out of the frying pan into the fire.

I don't need it for work as I am retired and there is only me at home most of the time so it is adequate for my needs.

I do test my speeds, it does depend on the device and time of day. On my iPad the upload currently its 58 and the download 12,44. On my iPhone it is 69 and 12.91

That is pretty pathetic because there is no full fibre broadband here. We have fibre as far as the cabinet, but the last part to the house is still through copper wire. We are a long way from the cabinet which doesn’t help. In their London house, my daughter has incredibly fast full fibre which makes ours look like a snail in comparison. My daughter works full time from our study, so she has her works laptop connected by an Ethernet cable, so isn’t reliant on the WiFi.

Having said that there is no full fibre in the town, that actually isn’t true. A firm calle zoom are currently digging up all the pavements and making a real mess while installing full fibre. They have just started to offer packages, the lowest offers 150 for both upload and download, but it is more than I am paying now and I can’t be bothered to change to it. As soon as my daughter moves out, hopefully in the summer, it will just be the two of us again, so there won’t be such a strain on it

I thought it was too good to be true. A while back when my oldest granddaughter had Covid, non of the rest of us in the house got it. Last week little Esme caught it from school and of course she passed it on to her mum. They have been camping out in the bedroom for a week to keep out of the way. I hoped not to get it, but I felt ill overnight and did a positive test this morning I have a cough, headache and runny nose. Just the symptoms of a bad cold really. OH tested negative this morning, so he has gone off to the supermarket with a meal plan to take us to the end of the week. My daughter should be clear by Wednesday, so she will be able to take over again as OH is bound to catch it

Good afternoon peeps
Oh dear Linda, sorry to hear you have Covid. Really hope you get over it quickly without too much bother.So glad that as hubby is negative just now, he was able to get and stock up on foods for you all.

Yes Joan, the clothes were a major disappointment! My wardrobe is full of clothes I have had for many years and some things are still in good condition but Im always wearing a black tshirt and cardigan with black trousers.Its slimming and black suits me but i ordered 2 coloured tops to brighten me up but to no avail.

Re your ginger cake, glad it turned out ok and my fruit loaf has nearly disappeared too lol.As for not wanting to move after a sunday lunch, I thought thats what sunday afternoons were for, sleep it off!

Compared to yesterdays lovely sunny weather, today is windy, overcast and quite cold so I did not venture outside at all.

Had a very lazy day doing very little except Ive nearly finished my diamond art. Another 1/2 hour and it will be finished.

Have to get up early tomorrow as its black bin day and daughter is still away!

Gonna watch my favourite programme at 8pm. Grace. I have all the 14 books so am really enjoying seeing hows its played out on the telly. I also like seeing places around the south coast I know so well.

Off to make a cuppa then its feet up for the night.

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Edit: Just heard on the radio Dennis Waterman died today in a Spanish hospital.
He was good in Minder, New tricks & The Sweeney.

Hi all not a bad day here today, overcast but twenty degrees, however the wind has come up now. I caught the bus I. To Cheltenham the first time since July 2020. It was good to have a good look round the shops. I bought a pair of chinos and a pair of sandals both in M&S. Had coffe and scone when I got there about 10.15am then tuna sandwiches and a glass of white wine for lunch. Buses are a bit hit and miss with the driver shortage but it worked out ok.

Linda sorry to hear you have Covid hope it is like mine was, just a bad cold, felt off a couple of days but not so bad I couldn’t potter at things, just felt quite tired but no worse than a bad cold. Just let your OH spoil you and hope he doesn’t catch it.

Afternoon everyone.
Well yesterday the weather was horrendous and typical as it was bin day!! Oh yes, struggled in the gale to get the bin out and then got soaked getting it back in Such dreadful weather.

Today started off much brighter and around 11 the grasscutters turned up. All done and it looks nice. Fast forward to after lunch and the heavens opened once more. More like winter here.

My poor pea plant that i put outside on Saturday has now been bashed and dont think it will survive grrrr.

Glad you had a nice trip into town Ann and a glass of wine to boot lol. Good you bought something nice too.

Linda hope you are feeling a bit better with the Covid.

Cant be bothered doing much for tea so might just be a tin of soup and crusty bread, comfort food needed!

Hope you are ok Joan and your weather is better over there than ours.

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I can’t remember the last time I went in a bus Ann, our bus service is pretty dire in any case.

OH now has Covid, but thankfully little Esme went back to school today. I was trying to play with her yesterday to occupy her while her mum was working, so that was hard going. I just feel really achy and have a horrible cold. My daughter is out of her quarantine, so she has taken over the shopping from OH

The worst thing was that I had a jacket potato for dinner last night and as I took the first bite, it was so hot that it really burnt my throat. I don’t understand it as it had been out of the microwave for a while and cut in half, standing for a while before I started eating it. I could have done without that

Afternoon all.
Oh Linda, I guess that was inevitable that your OH would catch it. At least your daughter is out of quarantine now so can get out to get shopping etc.Here's hoping you both make a quick recovery.

Well the sun has finally shown its face after all the rain last 3 days but it still looks like showers are never far away. Its also quite chilly here unlike the heatwave predicted down south....bring it on up here, we need the heat!

My strawberry plants that i moved to the lounge window are coming along nicely and have decided to leave them there and hopefully will get a few strawberries later on.

Not much to do today except off to strip my bed and tonight off to a village AGM with my neighbour.Last year there was nearly fisticuffs after 5 minutes lol!!!

Hope all is well with everyone else.

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Exciting in your village then Florence.

rained here all morning which was good for the garden but I am hoping it will clear up now.

Linda did you check the heat in the potato after you swallowed some. It may be that your throat sis extra sensitive. I had the bad cold and cough and I seem to have been left with a very dry and quite sensitive throat as has my daughter.

hopefully you and your OH will soon recover.

Off to the local garden centre in a minute with my neighbour.

Good afternoon to all looking in.
Well my head is scrambled today dealing with various paperwork etc!

I bought something online 5 weeks ago from a company. The products were not suitable as the creams made my skin red and blotchy so I packed the box back up and daughter sent the parcel back through main PO.

I had requested a refund and now 6 weeks on have not received a penny. Unfortunately, the receipt had been misplaced so i cannot provide the tracking number to trace the parcel at the company's returns dept.

They have been less then helpful and even after several emails, they are not budging ie, no proof of posting, no refund!!! We are talking about £50 here not £5.

No idea what to do now except hope that just maybe sometime soon, the refund may appear in my bank but im not holding my breath. They were so unhelpful grrrr

My plants arrived today...some violas i ordered and although were still very watered, they were squashed and some were damaged. I shall use what i can and see how I get on.

Just been one of those days today and its really cold and rainy too so roll on tomorrow and hope the sun shines. Tomorrow is another day as they say.

Hope all's well with everyone

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Good afternoon although nothing good about it!

The horrendous showers here look like snow along with gale force winds. Heatwave?
Some joke that is.

Both my parents have health problems and its causing me concern. My mother is vague and not with it and has yet another infection. She is dehydrated but wont admit that!
Dad had bloods done, was asked to go to hospital urgently as liver and kidney tests are abnormal. He is supposed to get his monthly cancer injection elsewhere in a hour. He explained this to reception but they are unconcerned!

What a worry being so far away from them, so hard.

Dad will phone later with results. Personally I think he has high sugar levels as he is always thirsty and doesnt always take his insulin tablets as too stubborn to listen.

Anyway fingers crossed all will be ok.

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That is a worry for you Florence. Dehydration causes Urine infections so it is a pity you can't get her to drink more. Sorry that you are having these plroblems when you have health problems of your own.

reading some of your problems seem to make mine seem a bit trivial, but worrying, nonethe less,
I have joined the ranks of Warfarin users... for my atrial problems..
and have to settle in to a steady user program.... I have had a fragile skin problem for a while now, the slightest abrasion results in either a bruise, or a skin tear....so I now have to be more careful ...in my daily tasks

Bob your problems are as much a worry to you as others' problems are to them. It must be difficult having to be careful when you have gardening and other household jobs to do. I expect it will come naturally to avoid knocks after a while. But take care. <3

Good morning all from a sunny south east.

Florence I am sorry to learn of your parents' ill health and the worry to you and I can quite understand how helpless you feel from being far away, as I have been in that situation in the past.
I hope things settle down and they accept ...and take... advice and treatment.

Bob
Do take care, as Ann says.
I take a different blood thinner and well remember that as the hosptal doctor handed over my first batch, after new diagnosis of the medical situation, he said,
"There's no antidote to these".
Well, I thought I was on limited time, if ever I cut myself.
The 1st time that happened, I was gardening and cutting up twigs to get more into the garden bin. .. I was on my own and had cut the fleshy part of a finger just above my palm..
I just quickly wrapped a piece of clean kitchen tissue tightly round, sat down and held my arm up in the air. After a while, I dared to look.... I had survived !

I now don't worry quite so much about the dreadful warning.... but do take extra care.
When I go on a school trip as a volunteer, I always tell a member of staff that I carry a medical card detailing my medication, just in case of an accident.

Live life as you want, but be careful !

Good afternoon peeps.
Well Dad's bloods were redone and rushed through in an hour and it would seem they have now returned to normal limits so panic over!! However he enlightened me on what he drinks which apart from 6-7 cups of tea, some cordial and lemonade nothing else except.....through the night he drinks 2 bottles of lucazade!! Oh my as the mother of a type ! and he is type 2 i expressed my concern and he said he will change to something else...As I said hes very stubborn and doesnt take advice easily. Im 85 and can do what I like attitude!!

As for mum , her prescription was finally delivered at 8pm last night...so late and she was in a very bad mood at having to wait all day and evening. Hoping the meds kick in soon and shes feeling better.

With my own health problems, even if I wanted to, I'm not able to jump on a couple of planes down south but they don't want or seem to understand that.

Anyway all settled for now.

Bob, since my heart surgery, I am on blood thinners...Clopidogrel and yes they make my ankles itchy and also sometimes the skin breaks and starts bleeding. I scratched a tiny spot on my calf and oh my, it bled for hours before it stopped. I also bruise very easily if I knock my leg and with having no feeling, I often dont realise I have knocked it until i'm in the shower and see the bruise. So you are not alone but I'm just more careful as Gwyn says when cutting things with knives etc. I always have plenty of kitchen roll and tissues in my handbag if I go out.

Also everyone has different problems, some big, some small but they are all problems to everyone and affect us all in many different ways. Dont ever think your smaller problems are trivial compared to others, because they are not.

We on here are always happy to chat, share and when possible give advice or support to each other no matter what the problem.

Joan I can understand how you felt being far away from your mum, that must have been so hard but why do family members try and make those far away feel guilty, so unfair?Hope you are out in your garden today.

Well the sun is waking up but there is a keen easterly wind so not too warm.
Daughter and I managed to plant up the Violas and we have hung 10 brightly coloured pots on the fence posts. They really brighten up the front. heres hoping the wind doesn't destroy them!

Tesco coming about 3pm today, looking forward to a few goodies I added to the list and some snacks to watch Eurovision later.

Anyone else gonna watch it?

Right tummy is rumbling, so off to make a sandwich.

Enjoy the rest of your weekend folks

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Afternoon all,

Well a lovely day here and washing on the line and another load almost done.

Florence glad your parents are getting health problems sorted it must be hard being so far away. I lived close to my parents so was lucky in that respect.

I hope everyone else is keeping reasonably well.

Garden is coming on nicely now and looks tidy and colourful.

Yes Florence I shall be watching the Eurovision bit of light daft viewing .lol. OH will be watching football before that . Not much else on to watch anyway.


Take care all.and enjoy the weekend.

I will be watching Eurovision, it is a bit of a family tradition to do that.

I am glad your parents are sorted for now Florence. Mine were only thirty miles away from here, so it was easier to look after them.

According to the NHS Covid app on my phone, I can come out of isolation today. I did a lateral flow test this morning and I still have two thick red lines, so I will continue to stay out of the way. OH is still in bed, but he is three days behind me, so that is to be expected.

It is a glorious day today, I watered a few pots and filled the bird bath up. As OH is Ill, I have just done the ironing which he normally does. There wasn’t much apart from my granddaughters school shirts.

As we haven’t been able to get out shopping this week, I did a large Tesco click and collect order which my daughter can collect it soon.